Internet is flooded with thoughts, quotes, and blogs on a relationship. But, it is a mere fact that one size doesn’t fit all, especially in relationships where people are different, circumstances are different, thoughts and beliefs are different. Well, let’s try framing a few points that will work for every relationship, especially in hard times.
Sustaining Your Relationship When Time Gets Tough
Let’s dig deep into what makes a relationship strong when things don’t go well.
I’m keeping forgiveness on top due to some obvious reasons. Mistakes are part of life, and relationships are no exception. It takes a big heart and unwavering commitment to forgive when your significant half is at fault. Accepting what happened and deciding to move forward is a true sign that relationship matters to you more than the pain you have been through and all the mess created by your partner.
In today’s time where tolerance level among people is decreasing, luckiest people are those who get in a relationship with someone who forgives!
Never Stop Talking
Obviously, there are times when you are angry, you don’t feel like talking, not because you don’t want to talk, but because you just want the other person to realize the mistake made. Not every relationship remains the same when there is a gap, the gap of communication, the gap of not being able to hear each other’s voice.
Talk about the issues, get things sorted, and move forward, this is the real beauty of any relationship.
Go Back In Time And Remind Your Good Time
Things change with time and you can never have control on a few things. And hence, your love needs to be change-oriented. She may not be able to text you as often as she used to, he may not be able to care for you like a child the way he used to a few years back. Yes, these things are worth missing. On the other hand, you can consider these situations as increasing maturity in your relationship and love.
Now you have some good times to talk about, so do it!
Relationship Or Fight, Decision Is All Yours!
One of the most common mistakes that couples make in a relationship is not to compromise, keep the arguments going and this, in turn, makes the condition even worse. You need to keep in mind that anger doesn’t solve anything, it builds nothing, but it can destroy everything.
You must know when you should be angry and how much anger in difficult times is sufficient that doesn’t lead to disasters.
Never Hesitate To Say Sorry
Stronger relationships are those where a small word sorry and a beautiful smile can do the rest. All you need is to be sure that the other person while saying sorry, means it.
When you say sorry even if it is not your fault, it’s a sign that nothing matters to you more than the relationship you are in.
Also Read: How to make a relationship last forever?
Lying and cheating are choices, not mistakes, a relationship when built on trust, if gets attacked by lies, can lead to troubles. This is the dumbest thing you can do, consider yourself lucky if you get the forgiveness after lying and never repeat it again.
You Don’t Need Words Every Time!
This is where the connection between both of you does the talking, not the words. You know he has committed a mistake, and if you are so connected that a forehead kiss and a tight hug is enough for you to finish the mess between you and move ahead in the relationship, you’re in luck because your souls have started talking.
Have No Room For Misunderstanding
Misunderstandings are nothing but communication gaps created by bad times. Don’t let this happen, be open, talk about the right and wrong, talk about how you feel and surely you will reach to the conclusion. Don’t let stupid misunderstandings spoil your relationship.
Being in a relationship is easy, staying in a relationship is not! Quotes and sayings may not work until you are willing to make things work. Be willing, be committed, and be ready to fight the rest of the world when you need to!