We are all set to enter in the New Year, a new decade, yes, 2020 is looming just around the corner and the excitement is on fire! So, what’s the plan? How are you going to begin 2020? Any New Year resolution? Is it weight loss? Or six pack abs? Or quit smoking? Or save more money? Or living life to the fullest? Well, no matter what it is, first I would love to wish all Merry Christmas, a Happy New Year, and of course, Best of luck for your resolutions!
Colloquially saying, last night, I was wondering why people make New Year resolutions and what truly a New Year resolution must be like. I realized that resolution is all about improving our life, our confidence, our self-esteem and everything in between. The second thought, in my mind, what I feel is most important, is the happiness of your near and dear ones, your family, your friends, and more importantly, that “Special Someone” who is willing to walk with you through the peaks and valleys of life. Ultimately, I guess it’s time to do all the “repair work” that your relationships need and enter the New Year together, holding hands, looking deep into each other’s eyes, smiling, and focusing on building and strengthening your already strong love bond!
What’s a perfect gift?
We all know the importance of presenting gifts on New Year but, over the past few years, my thoughts when it comes to presenting gifts, has changed dramatically that’s difficult but not impossible to understand. Especially, when I realized, material, things, and beauty, don’t last forever, true love and loyalty does and hence, it gave a new way to think and think differently. Slowly (might be too late) I came to realize, relationships are priceless and deserve utmost care.
So, my point on presenting gifts to THAT SPECIAL PERSON I suppose needs to be a lot more than gift articles. Before heading to what you must gift, let’s take a look at some gift article alternatives that are sure to delight the love of your life.
- Gifting even the most expensive watch is useless if you can’t gift them your PRECIOUS TIME!
- Gifting the pillows is useless if you can’t gift them the COMFORT THEY NEED!
- Gifting teddies is useless if you can’t gift them the CARE THEY DESERVE!
- Gifting the sweetest chocolates is useless if you can’t be SWEET WITH YOUR WORDS!
- Gifting the rings and necklaces is useless if you can’t gift them the COMMITMENT AND LOYALTY.
- The best present, is your presence!
The best New Year gifts for your loved ones
Now, let’s check out a list of some of the finest and priceless gifting options:
How you treat people says a lot about yourself, and it is sure to reflect among couples. Treat your significant half with all the respect they deserve and it will make many things easier. Respect their beliefs, their morale, and the differences that lie between you two.
I strongly believe in the fact that cheating is a choice, not a mistake. If you “TRULY” love someone, you can ‘NEVER’ get attracted to someone else, in any possible way. Real couples stay in one love, they don’t understand or focus on words such as second affair or EX!
Buy time for each other
As mentioned earlier, gifting the expensive watches is useless if you can’t give your precious time to your loved ones. It is important to buy time for each other, better away from the hustle and bustle of daily life and away from work life as it’s “YOUR TIME”.
Care and Attention
This is such a common necessity of life of any couple and also the most ignored one. Never make your near and dear ones feel for granted and understand the times when your loved ones need you, and need you the most. Moreover, you need to keep in mind that little things at times matter the most and hence, you need to take care of those small things that your loved ones love.
Compassion and Empathy
At times, people need to be treated like child, especially when they are suffering from pain or any kind of disease. Never leave them alone in a condition where they can’t (or even can) survive without you.
On the other hand, understanding and sharing feelings is vital and to ensure better understanding and smooth sharing between you two, an effective communication is prime necessity. If there are two people in this world who can understand each other better, then it’s you two, that’s what you need to focus on!
Hugs and kisses
Small efforts can do big tricks. For instance, fights are common among between even the happiest couples. Try a sudden tight hug during the tough conversations and see how quickly a hug can melt hearts and make your loved one forget the fight and feel like engaging with you.
Forgiveness and togetherness
Love needs forgiveness, and forgiveness needs love! Mistakes and fights are part of every relation and the best relationships are the ones in which a small sorry and a little smile is sufficient to get things restarted. If one of you is happy to say sorry and the other one is happy to forgive, remember, you are in one of the best relationships that you should NEVER let go.
Try gifting these essentials to your loved ones and keep the celebrations going year on year.