Lonely… I’m Mr. Lonely…
I have nobody… for my own…
I’m So Lonely…
I have nobody… for my own…
I’m so lonely…
So, Mr. Lonely, does it sound familiar to you on this valentine’s day? If yes, the very first thing that you need to know here is- there is a difference between being alone and feeling lonely!
You are not alone- here are the reasons!
And, now, check out these 4 things that are sure to hit the nail on the head!
You get to know yourself better!
Yes, you want to be in a relationship, you want to celebrate this ‘couple’s week’ and those hugs, teddies, and chocolates. It’s quite normal to feel alone when you see couples moving around hand in hand.
Talk to your desires of being in a relationship and inform your desires and feelings that you are not looking for something temporary. The time when you are single is the right time to know yourself better, you can identify those hidden points inside you- how you want your life partner to be, how you want him/her to look and feel, and you can get to know who the right one for you is, the one you can call your soulmate!
You have more space to plan your life ahead
The best part here is, you know it back in your mind! Sometimes, planning ahead or pre-planning can be fruitful for your life and your relationships. Bear in mind that it’s not important that things need to go exactly as planned, you just need to ensure that you make the most out of that moment when it’s there for you!
Having some time and space before getting into a relationship is the best thing you can have. You can prepare yourself mentally, physically, emotionally, and financially before your partner is finally with you. Congratulations! You have more time to achieve what you want to achieve in your life and entering into a relationship when you have achieved something in life is never a bad thing to happen.
Your family and your friends are always with you!
Ask people who don’t get to spend time with their near and dear ones as they are busy maintaining their relationship and lifestyle- how do they feel when they don’t get to spend time with their family? Yes, it is a mere fact that not everyone is lucky enough to have family and life partner together, some are forced to live far away due to their job and other reasons.
On the other hand, your family and friends are always there to motivate you, to help and support you so that you can achieve your goals, and give meaning to your life. Make family time the most memorable time until God sends your king or your queen in your life.
Waiting for long is better than being with wrong!
You need to believe in the fact that something good is about to happen, and it will happen at the right time, with the right person, and for the best reasons.
Take a pause and think, you’re looking for a good thing or you want a quick fix?
Realize the fact that good things in life take time, if you rush into a relationship you are more likely to have a negative score in terms of relationships and this might make you feel love is not for you. It hurts really bad when you do everything you can to keep a relationship and that for someone who doesn’t understand, acknowledge, and appreciate.
Lovely bottom line!
Love is not temporary and it shouldn’t be treated that way. You don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t give you the love you deserve and for this, you need to be patient and wait for the right person to come into your life. After all, you’re the best, and you deserve the best!